Unapologetic: Beyond the Tyranny of People Pleasing with Annalie Howling
About the event
Are you tired of bending over backwards to please everyone around you? Do you feel like you’re constantly ‘performing’ to make other people comfortable? Are you continually sacrificing your own needs because you’re worried about disappointing or being rejected by those around you?
Welcome to the People Pleasers Club where membership includes perks like overwhelm, exhaustion, resentment and burnout!
People pleasing behaviours are often rooted in our experiences as a child. The love you received from your parent or parents may have felt conditional; something you had to earn by meeting their expectations, or you may have had a parent who was emotionally unavailable or inconsistent. The message you received loud and clear was that love was unreliable and only available when you behaved a certain way, so you adapted to survive in this environment.
As adults, this pattern of behaviour often keeps us locked in an endless cycle of self-doubt, anxiety, bad relationships and low self-worth.
The good news is that Annalie Howling is here to help! A self-confessed ‘people pleaser in recovery’, Annalie will help you get to the root of your people pleasing behaviours so you can begin to peel back the layers and reconnect with who you really are. You will learn how to set boundaries, say no without guilt and prioritise your own needs.